Hey Hey Hey
Totoo na to. itutuloy ko na ang online journal ko.
OMG, I'm 30!
I am turning thirty in less than two week, dati feeling ko I was kinda stuck at 15...Pero I have just realized that I have gained a lot of insights in life, see below, so I think I have matured.
1. People who matter are family and real friends. Ditch the people who do not make you grow as a person, who have hurt you intentionally ( mga plastikadang friends), not that I hold grudge pero kasi hey how can you trust others whom you blindly trusted then, tapos pag nagrereminisce ako ng memories may lightbulb moment ako na" aha masama syang tao!", and those whose personalities tick you. Walang masama if hindi mo magugustuhan lahat ng tao, if walang chemistry, as in wala, then accept.
Bottom line: Treasure the important people in your life. Be nice to others. You don't need a lot of friends, as long as you have FEW real ones.
2. Wisdom, hope, Love.
These are three things that I have been praying for since last year. Gone are the days of asking God a lot of why's.
Okay, sometimes I still ask "why" pero may understanding and acceptance na sa life situations na I daily encounter. My conversations with HIM are really more on sharing and ang galing nga kasi after each praying, may kapanatagan ng loob.
3. Value your special someone.
I and him have been together since 2006! As the relationship deepens, ang raming adjustments, quarrels, almost break-up moments, wala ng gana sa relationship phase, tpos ung let's make this work out once again. Eventually, we learned the value of communication, consistency, and commitment.
For someone to actually endured all my loka moments, unpredictable topak, and weird mood swings, I say wow to the most patient guy in my life. So since hey hey hey, I have wisdom na eh I know the importance of really valuing someone.Gone are the days of erratic madness, sisa praning mode, and tampo na walang kakwenta kwenta hahahahaha. I know for a fact he is so happy now kasi "normal" na ako.
4. Tiis tiis din pag may time!
Learn how to be patient. Mag lilimang taon, yes L-I-M-A, dito sa departamentong ito pero hanggang ngayon ay hindi pa ko promoted. Marami naman kaming nag aantay pa ng milagro na makasama sa line-up. Qualified naman ako diba. so tiis tiis din talaga. Maghintay! Hope and believe. And when finally that time comes, success is much much sweeter.
5. Celebrate each Day.
Life is a celebration! I love LIFE!